Hot Temper?

当你要发脾气时，记住关闭自己的嘴巴，免得增加自己的怒气。

- 希腊哲学家苏格拉底

As I said that I read the Chinese book that teach us how to control our emotion. I know that I am a hot temper person, since I step into form 6, I tried to control my emotion. I noticed that emotion will affect a lot of thing especially friendship. After I read this article, I would like to share with u all. Most of us will said that hot temper is one type of attitude that follow us when we born. Is it true? Let us read this story,

日本的禅师接见一位客人，客人很苦恼的对禅师说：“自从我生下来，我的脾气都很暴躁，请问有什么可以解决吗？”

禅师看着他和问他：“你有带脾气暴躁出来吗？”

客人摇摇头说：“我今天没有带来，不过当发生事情时，他就会自动跑出来”

禅师笑着说：“可见你的脾气暴躁不是天生拥有，而是遇到事情的时候，他才会发作吧！”

客人问：“有办法解决吗？”

禅师开示他说：“当你要发脾气的时候，如果能克制自己，不使它发生，哪里会有脾气暴躁的问题?而且你将脾气暴躁推说是你的天生个性，完全只是推托之词，不是吗？”

After you all read this story. Do you have any opinion? I have to say sorry that I can’t translate to English because I not so good in translation. Ha ha.

Change....

Yesterday I read a Chinese book with the title Dont Argue, No Matter What! From this book, I notice my other side. Normally, I will argue with my friends no matter what. Even though is a small things we will argue until our face become like tomato. Now I know that if we always argue , it will affect our friendship. Beside that, I always hope that other people will follow my steps so I tried to change other people. From that book said that you don’t want change yourself because you know that attitude very difficult to change so that you will try to change other people but you also don’t want to change your attitude, why other people have to change because of you. Don’t be selfish. Therefore start from today, I will start to change myself and listen to other people’s opinion before I make decision. Ha ha, is the time for me to change and continue to read this book.

所谓 ：江山易改，本性难移

This a very tough mission wo!!!!

每个人都是自己的主宰，如果连自己的个性都无法改变，那么还有什么资格改变别人。想改变别人，最好从改变自己做起。

Last day, Last Mail, Last call

Is the time for me to wave my hand and said goodbye to Sybase 365. I supposed feel very happy because finally I no need to pick up the call and entertain the complaint but don’t know why, I feel “wu shek de”. I miss them because they really nice and they teach me and help me a lot. From this company, I really know a lot of things. Where you fell down, where you stand back. Just as when my office manager on leave, I have to take care some of her job. On that time, I really “pening kepala” because I don’t know all the things. I tried to learn and asked other people. They all really help me and explained to me one by one. When I have done some mistake, they try to console me. They say this is not important and you can solve it easily. I know they tried to calm me down because I know that this thing very important. Today is my last day, I have to leave but I still miss them. When they ask me do you miss us, I suddenly want to cry but I try to control my tear and said I will miss you all because this is my office job. Now, I felt relieve but on the other hand, I felt no direction because I don’t know what should I do in home. Sleep, eat and sleep again? Haiz….